I often talk with people in the practice about setting goals for their health, maybe even their career, or what they want for their family life, and help them come up with realistic actions to get them results. Why not do the same exercise for the holiday season?
It’s a time of year I observe people being consistently OVERstimulated, OVERworked, OVERindulging and often OVERwhelmed. Which leads to added stress to your spine, and a higher chance of injury.
You can avoid this though! Give yourself a few minutes to answer this question:
What do you want the holidays to mean to you? When you look back and remember them, how do you want to feel?
Set an intention for the holiday season, and you’ll find it helps you stay consistent with choices you make.
But first, be realistic and consider:
What’s happening in your life these days? Where are your children or extended family in the current stage of their lives? Given their ages and interests, what do you want the holidays to look like for you?
Every year our lives are a little different, and it’s important to change our expectations accordingly.
Maybe you have a holiday planned, maybe there is someone in your family who having a tough time, maybe your grieving a loved one? Maybe there has been a change in your home or work life somehow? Maybe your finances are more strained than usual?Depending on your reflection on these areas of your life and the people in it, you might want to adjust your plans and celebrate a little differently this year.
Decide what you want the holidays to mean, what your priorities are, and how you want feel? And then I want you to write it down.
Choose 3-5 words or perhaps write a brief statement or sentence, then put it somewhere you can see it. You can get creative with this! Make it look pretty or decorative if you like, but what really matters is that you will see it and be reminded of what you wrote. Whether you post it on your fridge, put it on your phone, or write it in a journal that you will look at every day, this is the most important step!
When you have an intention to refer to, it will help you make solid decisions about how you spend your time and money this holiday season. You’ll feel better about your choices because they will be more realistic with your current lifestyle, and this will ease your mind, and help you find more JOY (and less stress) holiday season.